She passed away peacefully in her sleep on Feb 21.
I had spent a few hours with her on Feb 10. Her body had
clearly lost the battle with cancer by then, but she was clear in her head and
strong in her heart – like she always was. There was no evidence of pain… just
physical weakness. Her daughters and friends were doing an absolutely
incredible job of supporting her. All this is just to tell you that apart from
the disease, everything else around her was as good as it could be.
Her clarity, focus and humility will inspire me all my life.
For a proud lady
Dear Denise,
I feel empty
but I am very happy our paths have crossed
You worked with great dedication
without judging the How's and the Where's
but straight and frank on the What's and the Why's
Persistently searching
the essence of things
without many words
Pure and authentic in your relations
sometimes ignoring the etiquette
And only when you were tired
you couldn't see the wood for trees
You were calm before storms
you used your time
rather than consume it
I hope you enjoyed investing in people
and helping the ones that needed help
As you often did
Benjamin Franklin once said: "Tell me and I forget, teach me and I may remember, involve me and I learn.”
Thank you Denise for involve me! Thank you for your guidance through my PhD. Your availability, patience and support have allowed me to overcome all my insecurities.
It was an honor to know you, and your teachings will never be forgotten.
As time goes
by things unveil
We then realize
what gifts the people we've met brought to us
We then understand
the importance of a king encouragement on one's path
We then
feel the uniqueness and great value of the fragile lives we have
Denise received me as a visiting Phd student for 3
months at Leuven. Her encouragements, trust and affection have been very
important in forming my own approach of research and our exchanges as colleagues
have always been a positive addition to my thoughts. A very rigorous researcher
only topped by the very kind and helpful person she was.
In this moment of sorrow, I would like to
express to those dearest to you Denise, my gratitude for your vibrant and
communicative desire to encourage young researcher and make them confident that
they can contribute something. As many others I benefited from It. Thank you
for this example of a valuable life for knowledge but more importantly for
people.
Relatives, colleagues and friends
I'm here to share the sadness for the loss of Denise and to convey a tribute to Denise. I do this personally, as a colleague for
more than 20 years now, and on behalf of the colleagues working with
MARKAL-TIMES models.
Initially Denise was a good colleague of all of us at
work, focused on improving the common modelling tools. Denise was carrying the
understanding of a full blood economist to a community mainly of engineers. The
colleagues will remember her as a very dynamic and dedicated person who brought
high level theoretical but still practical contributions to the ETSAP
community.
With the years the pleasure to work with Denise became
friendship. We will remember most her warmth, openness, good nature and
pleasantness. On behalf of those friends – Amit, Richard, Maurizio, Socrates,
Evasio, Kathleen, Maryse, Francis to mention a few – I convey the you our
respect and sympathy.
I convey as well the admiration of dozens of young
economists and engineers who from Denise learnt the art of modelling. Young
women in particular were inspired by the strong,
intelligent and hard-working woman she was. And as one of the young
researchers reminded me, he learnt to put aside secondary issue to get to
essential from Denise's repeating him: "Non mais ça ce n'est pas important
ça!".
(on behalf of ETSAP, read at the funeral held in Brussels, Uccle Crematorium, on February 27, 2013)
Each time I have met Denise, working in a hotel, sitting in her house, walking
together in Stanford or in Brazil, eating in a nice restaurant of Brussels a
few months ago, I have left her with strong feelings of fullness and of
"feeling good".
When I think of her today, I feel the same, differently of course, and I will miss the moments shared with her, but what
I have enjoyed with her will continue to inspire me.